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The Start of Healing a Broken Heart – Understanding Relationships

admin — Tue, 10 Aug 2010 07:35:45 +0000

Shouldn’t there be a manual on healing a broken heart? Somewhere in the back of the mind of an average human adult, there will almost always be a person who we remember as the one that we did not want to let go.. We can all at times wonder: why do people come and go out of our lives beyond our control? And why do we more often than not, resent having to let go of someone we have shared a part of our lives with?

One of Stataquest’s topics include a lecture about people coming into your life either for a reason, a season or a lifetime. This theory goes on saying that essentially in people relationships, there will be characters that you meet in order to fulfil a particular need in a very specific part of your life, hence a reason. But like a task that once done no longer exists, these people move on with their lives prompted by relationships problems or not. Anyhow, their departure should be your cue to move on from that moment in time, too.

In some instances, people stay in your life for a season. These are the people who you share a significant segment in your life such as childhood or teenage years. There is more than a mere need to be fulfilled in the relationships you build with them, and amorous or not, they will have more influence in your becoming as a person. But as these segments come to a conclusion, despite the numerous break up advice and strategies on how to save a relationship, these people may just simply cease to become the characters we play alongside with in the game of life.

And when we are lucky enough, we get to meet the people who’ll stay with you for a lifetime. It is through these people from whom, you will learn the lessons in life which you shall build your life upon. These relationships more often than not contribute to our knowledge about relationships from finding and falling in love to healing a broken heart. These valuable learnings will soon inspire not only the way you deal with relationships but all the other areas in your life.

You see, by being able to recognize a person’s purpose in your life, comes the acceptance of just how long we can hold on to those dear ties. Instead of being haunted by a broken relationship, we can appreciate instead those people who have been the pillars of our being. And ultimately, by studying relationship communication we can hope to distinguish lifetime relationships where in we can receive as well as give the lifetime lessons that our lives shall take shape from.

Is it possible then to prevent heartbreaks? Though love may have its “mysterious ways”, we can always change the way we see and interact with it. By understanding the human nature of relationships be it in the process of easily being able to empathize; in the necessary moments of parting; and further, perhaps finally, in the first and firm steps of healing a broken heart.

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Relationships 1: Communication 1

admin — Sun, 15 Aug 2010 09:55:15 +0000

First of a series of videos about relationship issues we all face today. This first one is about communication in relationships. I hope it helps you in your day to day communication and relationships

Duration : 0:9:54

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SongbirdDiva on: Jealousy in Romantic Relationships (Just my opinion :-)

admin — Tue, 27 Jul 2010 21:10:58 +0000

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I’m answering a question that I received from one of my lovely subscribers about jealousy

Please feel free to post a video response

Duration : 0:12:13

Solving Relationship Problems – Part 9: Developing a Process for Resolving Conflict

admin — Thu, 22 Jul 2010 13:01:23 +0000

Conflict resolution skills are generally lacking in most couples. Unresolved conflict can destroy a relationship, so in order to build healthy relationship, you need to develop skills and a process for resolving conflict. In this session, we outline an effective process. If you want the process to work, you need to use it in the little conflicts – not just the major problems. If you can learn to use the process in small conflicts on a daily basis, it will become natural, and will be very effective when the major conflicts come up.

Duration : 0:10:3

Heal Communication Problems in Marriage/Relationships – for women

admin — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 22:58:47 +0000

Just had a heated quarrel with your man? Watch this prayer meditation video to turn the energy around and heal the conflict with the power of Spirit. Remember love is a stronger vibration than hatred, resentment or anger. This video meditation helps transmute the energy of hatred, resentment or anger with the energy of love. It really just takes one person to do this. The love energy that you radiate will reach your husband, even if he is not physically present in the same room with you.

So when you have a disagreement next time, instead of arguing with your husband and escalating the conflict, stay in your center, express your hurt gently and simply watch this video meditation.

Duration : 0:3:46

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Shanda Says, Family First!

admin — Fri, 11 Jun 2010 14:14:35 +0000

Hi guys, I just wanted to answer an email I received about children and how fast they can get attached to someone their parent is dating. I also wanted to discuss the Keyshia Cole, Frankie, and Neffie situation and how situations like that can effect children.

Duration : 0:6:43

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Nonviolent Communication Skills Training Role Play NVC or Active Listening

admin — Sun, 06 Jun 2010 02:07:30 +0000

Nonviolent Communication Skills Training Role Play( NVC or Active listening ) founded by Dr. Marshall Rosenberg. Nonviolent Communication skills is modeled in a role play of powerful listening skills ( empathy ) with Mel Sears and Rick Goodfriend from the Compassionate Connection TV Show in Santa Barbara, California. !@#$

See more communication skills training at http://walkyourtalk.org/ . !@#$

Duration : 0:7:33

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Solving Relationship Problems – Part 1: Why are Relationships so Difficult?

admin — Sun, 06 Jun 2010 02:07:20 +0000

It’s easy to “fall in love” and start a relationship. But building a lasting relationship that deepens over time is the hard part. In this video we discuss some of the root problems that cause relationships to fail. The problems begin before you even meet your partner: your need for someone to fill your needs. We discuss differences in perception and the way projection tends to sabotage a relationship. This is the first of an 11-part series in which we cover a wide range of relationship problems and how to solve them.

Duration : 0:9:13

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Human Relations – Agape Communication

admin — Thu, 03 Jun 2010 07:32:15 +0000

This video lesson was created as a part of a Human Relations course that I am taking. The lesson used here covers Agape (Godly love) Communication, and discusses principles required to achieve effective communication in any human relationship.

Duration : 0:8:18

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What is Imago Therapy?

admin — Wed, 26 May 2010 11:24:10 +0000

Founders of Imago Therapy, Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D. explain what Imago Therapy is and how to do it. You can learn more about Imago Therapy and Dialogue and ways to make your marriage or relationship even better at GettingTheLoveYouWant.com.

Duration : 0:6:42

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