When talking to a girl you’ve never met, remember that there is no pressure, don’t get your hopes up, avoid getting worked up and try to be yourself. Have fun and laugh when talking to a girl you’ve never met using advice from a dating coach in this free video on dating and relationship advice.
Expert: Jessica Claire
Contact: www.newyorkdatingcoach.com
Bio: Jessica Claire is a professional dating instructor at New York Dating Coach in New York City. She is one of the only female coaches for men in this industry and has been coaching since 2006.
Filmmaker: Paul Muller
Duration : 0:1:10
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umm well just be …
umm well just be confident and talk to her and don’t be stressed about it.
Um…you have to …
Um…you have to talk to her.
what does it mean …
what does it mean if a girl that i like that doesnt know me,if she like glances at me everyday when i walk by her?i really need help with this because i really liike her and i dont know what to do
luky for sum kid, …
luky for sum kid, good job!
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SHE LIKES YOU DUDE …
SHE LIKES YOU DUDE GET IN THERE!
Just walk up to a …
Just walk up to a girl and say. Wanna be friends with benefits? And if she says no laugh and say u were jking. Works every time.
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Well my problem is …
Well my problem is that my penis is HEEEEEEEUUUUUUGGGEEEEE, you see when im talking to a girl It always looks im pitching a tent in my pants.. so right off i look like the bad guy.
One word: practice. …
One word: practice. Low confidence and shyness comes from having little experience in the social field. Start having a conversation with strangers and you’ll get more and more experience…at first it will be awkward and you may feel that you sucked…that’s normal because you are a “beginner”; the next couple of times you will do better. Remember, like Claire said, there’s no pressure, just be yourself. Good luck!
how am i suppose to …
how am i suppose to be confident AND be myself when im not confident and im shy. the contradiction…
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If i come near a …
If i come near a girl i become red
As always your tips …
As always your tips have been extremely cryptic and unhelpful thank you!
@TimOaks im kinda …
@TimOaks im kinda like you
@TimOaks Oh, and …
@TimOaks Oh, and about saying things incorrect. We all do that. And we are usually the only ones who notice. The other person won’t really care about it, and will most likely not notice it or remember it. Don’t worry about being grammatically correct at all time, no-one is.
@TimOaks so simply …
@TimOaks so simply talk away, most people like when someone else comes up with the topics, even if they are silly. And take a look at whats “hot”. What movies do people watch? Talk about them! Avatar is a good topic these days. What music do people like? Does the person have a tatoo or a piercing? Talk about it! (It will also show that you are observant). But never push a topic, if the person don’t want to talk about his/her piercing, don’t.
@TimOaks It’s …
@TimOaks It’s mainly a matter of practice. if you feel insecure among people, then you need to talk to more people (hard, I know, I have been there myself).
Most conversations don’t make much sense, and people say silly/stupid things without really thinking about it. But practice, and if you feel that you don’t have anything to talk about, get some interesting interest/hobbies. Heck, I have talked about video games with girls that I don’t know, it’s not really important what you talk about.
Oh hey this should …
Oh hey this should be easy…..considering I can’t talk to people.
Oh I communicate just fine by writing. My mind is much more free and clear when I write.
Unfortunately that won’t get me in a relationship. I just can’t hold a normal conversation with any person without eventually running out of things to say or sounding like an idiot. No I’m not being hard on myself, I will literally say things backwards or incorrectly and most of the time people don’t catch it, but I know what I did
will this work on …
will this work on you?
Thanks
Thanks
Look, I think I …
Look, I think I understand your advice.
As it stands though, I’m not sexy
Chivalry is dead, I realize this, but I have not the capacity to become the Overman that all girls desire.
And besides, the only thing girls want is sex. So what else do I have to offer? Nothing; lest I satisfy the girl’s physical desires in the hopes of her staying with me, only to have her leave inevitably.
Now, I am a virgin and have never been touched by a girl, but I think I see how the “game” is played
From one Anime …
From one Anime Watcher named David to another (Bleach ftw) I feel you bro.
Ill do her all …
Ill do her all night:) with the lights on oooooohhh yeaaa
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