Going threw a break-up for the second time with the same person, for the same reasons. Of course Im the one crying and sad about it while he is out living it up. Whats the best advice you have received in dealing with the gut turning and broken hearted feeling? We’ve been on and off 3 yrs both in our mid 20′s, and were living together. It boils down to him wanting to bang whores and lying to me non stop. I need some advice or words of encourgmant to get me threw the day at the office. Thanks to anyone who answers. You guys are awesome.
this means he is not ready for the kind of relationship you want and this is the way you find out early and you are still young and you can go out and have fun you have plenty of time to find Mr.Right take time to find yourself be safe and God Bless
WHAT TO DO AFTER THE BREAK-UP 5 Tips- Relationship Advice - Ask Chauntel
no body is perfect in this life… so cheer up…
Long way to go…
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did you hear about a break-over???
thats something you should look into, for some it is to indulge oneself, go shopping buy sexy lingerie and feel real good about yourself. go see new guys and just get out more. or you could get a new haircut and start hitting the gym.
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it is ok !!!
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Just keep busy. Look after yourself… and realise that youre going to meet so many amazing people in your life once you get rid of this person. dont be their friend. dont be their enemy. don’t be anything to them at all. Who wants to be with someone like that for the rest of their lives. You deserve more.
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this means he is not ready for the kind of relationship you want and this is the way you find out early and you are still young and you can go out and have fun you have plenty of time to find Mr.Right take time to find yourself be safe and God Bless
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Heyy, i went through a break up just like that a few months ago…i know how hard it is to just get through a normal day without crying or thinking about it. there’s really no words that anyone will be able to say to make it all go away, but just try to remember that time really does heal everything. not only that, but tons of girls go through these types of things every single day. i was so depressed after my breakup i couldnt leave my room for almost a straight week and my mom just basically said that there are women who’s husbands die after 40 years of marriage and they still have to get up and move on. i know it sounds kind of blunt and mean but it’s also true and kind of puts things in perspective. you’ll meet someone else, don’t worry. plus you’re still young so you have plenty of time. and dont worry about this other guy. anyone who lies to you isn’t worth your time, honestly. i hope i helped…
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I’ve been through a breakup with the same person on and off for 1 year and if you’re the one crying i would say you should just remember that he’s not the only one you could find because i bet you’re a sweet girl and i know you could find somebody better but remember that it’s just life and sometimes you breakup and sometimes you don’t that’s how relationships are.
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He’s not wasting any time getting over the break up. You shouldn’t either. Go out with your friends, keep busy, meet new people, and try to not cry over this person who doesn’t deserve your tears. I know it’s a lot easier said than done. But when he sees that you’re out living your life and no longer fawning over him, it might be a wake up call. Just remember no one is in charge of YOUR happiness. That’s up to you hun. I hope everything works out for the best. Breakups suck.
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went through almost the same scenario last year except we had been together for about 7 years (i just turned 22). same reason we broke up 3 years ago, cheating. the best thing you can do is to try to forget about picking up the pieces, as for now anyway. you’ve heard it once, you’ll hear it forever, move on. this person is not giving you 100% of them self. everyone deserves 100% from a partner.
find a good break up movie, mine was forgetting sarah marshall.
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If it were me, even if i was the one crying etc…I’d just ignore him. ignore his calls, his emails, his txts..ignore everything that comes from him. It’ll get him all worked up.
Then go out with your friends, hang out and get him out of your mind,.
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come on !
don’t be so sad !
every one has a problem
if I were you, I would let it go
of course its my idea, it depends on you
cheer up !
life is beautiful
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babes, he sounds a nasty peace of work, if he loved you you wouldent be on and off all the time, breaking up is hard, i no becaus i was dumped yesterday. you need to be strong, your not the only one to break up with anyone, be strong, dont worry, you will find somone.
i hope you do,, you an me in the same boat lol
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I guarantee you that he’s counting on you to feed his ego by being the one stuck at home crying about what he’s done to you. And is VERY therapeutic to show him that you’re not! Happiness is the BEST revenge – it really is. Cutting off that ego-feeding supply you’re unintentionally giving him will stop him dead in his tracks.
Got a profile on myspace or facebook that he knows about? Get your girls together for a night out, and take pictures. Tell them what’s going on; get them to help you. Make sure you’re in all those pictures, looking awesome and surrounded by people, laughing your head off and obviously having a blast. Maybe even posing with a couple of random guys? (Just not too many, or he’ll figure it out. Stick to one or two) Project the image of happiness, hotness, popularity and prosperity – trust me, it’ll drive him nuts, and make you feel better in the process.
Good luck, hope you’re feeling better soon!
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I can’t make it hurt any less, I’m afraid. It just takes time.
I’ve been through break-ups that were instigated by me, where I realized that I just didn’t care about the other person the way I used to even though they had done nothing wrong. I felt terrible about it and cried my heart out for a few days, anyway. I’ve also been through break-ups that I felt were completely the other party’s fault. It hurt just the same and took just as long to get over. Grief is how we deal with a loss, regardless of the circumstances.
The only advice I can offer you in your current situation is to turn the sadness into anger. He’s the one that cheated. He’s the one that lied. He doesn’t honor you and he certainly doesn’t deserve you. I know that sounds petty, but sometimes it’s easier to get over someone if you’re mad at them. You deserve better. You can then channel the anger into something that pleases you; girls night out, anyone?
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I know how hard it is, you just want to curl up in bed and cry until your eyes dry up and you can’t feel anymore. You want everyone to leave you alone, and you can’t stand seeing people happy, especially in relationships, when you’re so miserable. Life’s not fair! But just remember that nobody gets through it without some heartache. Heartache can break some people while it makes others stronger, and you’ve got to decide what it’ll do to you.
Let yourself cry, dont bottle up feelings inside, get rid of them. Talk to a close friend and get it off your chest. Scream, shout, cry, whatever it takes! Burn any belongings he left with you! Give every feeling it’s time, dont brush it aside.. If you leave it inside you, it’ll come back to haunt you. But, having said that, dont hold onto these feelings for longer than they need. As soon as you can, get your life back on track
So, when you decide that you’ve had enough of feeling low, you’re done with heartache, get rid of it.
Go out with the girls, let yourself go and have fun, enjoy life! Put more energy into work, hobbies, friends and family- things that if time and effort is put in, you’ll be rewarded, you’ll get something back 
Haven’t got a hobby? Nows your chance to find one! Sign up for an art class, excercise class (karate or kick-boxing would be good to let off some steam!), start learning a musical instrument, whatever you feel you’d enjoy! Start really enjoying life, show that guy, but more importantly show yourself that your life is incredible with or without him, and you dont need him to be happy! 
Forget about love and all of it’s drama for a while.. and just when you’ve really stopped thinking about it, the perfect guy will walk into your life. That’s just the way it works, isn’t it?
But either way, you can be happy. Give it a try, start living again and forget the guy who broke your heart.. He’s gone, you’re moving on, and you’ll feel so much bette for it. Good luck, sweetie 
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i just watched when in rome. it was a great movie. i loved kristen bell in it; i think she did a great job.
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